Franklin alludes to this fact, but it’s not officially on his list.Most younger girls just haven’t learned the tricks of the trade yet.Sometimes — not all the time, but enough to make it worth mentioning — young women will abandon all their hopes and dreams and cling to you like glue, inserting themselves into your life and your goals, which can be suffocating. She’s further along in her career than you are and has already learned the pitfalls of living exclusively for someone else. If you’ve been on more than three dates with a Millennial girl, she’s obsessively checking your profile to see if you’ve updated it, because that’s today’s accepted barometer of where you stand in each other’s lives.The older crowd doesn’t put any (or at least nearly as much) weight on something so ridiculous.But in their defense, they haven’t had to, because you’re probably busting your nut inside of five minutes, so they don’t really have a lot of time for experimentation.An older woman knows what she wants and knows how to get it from you.
This gives her the upper hand, of course, but that’s not necessarily a bad thing. If you are attracted to older women, you might want to do a little introspection and figure out the reasons why.
If you’ve got some Freudian thing going on, you should probably address that first.
This is arguable, depending on your level of morality (or lack thereof), but Franklin says that deflowering a virgin and then dropping her will ruin her life.
But for some people, those rose-colored glasses turn into blinders that keep them from seeing that a relationship isn't as healthy as it should be.
Hopefully, you and your significant other are treating each other well. Take a step back from the dizzying sensation of being swept off your feet and think about whether your relationship has these qualities: A relationship is unhealthy when it involves mean, disrespectful, controlling, or abusive behavior.