Know your boundaries and ask him—whether you know him well or not—to respect your boundaries. There are always the guys that have no qualms about coming in between a group of girl friends just to get some action.He has no problem with hooking up with each one of your friends by jumping from one to the next.When tempted to engage in “dormcest,” remind yourself that you’re going to have to face him—as well as everyone else on your floor, because they’re going to find out—for the rest of the year, no matter how good or bad your hook-up was.Just because he’s sitting alone and doesn’t speak to anyone in the class doesn’t mean he’s a total lunatic.He might have no idea that what he’s doing is hurting your relationships with your friends, but it’s up to you guys to stop him by cutting him out of the equation.He’s graduating sooner than you are, and he knows it.
If you’re looking for companionship of any kind, there’s no reason to refuse a casual invitation to lunch or dinner.
No, we can’t be certain that what all guys are looking for is sex, but that’s definitely a part of college hook-ups.
He might want it and he might even ask for it, but if you’re uncomfortable, it’s not up to you to give it to him.
That is, of course, presuming that dates aren’t obsolete anymore.
While a lot of guys don’t even have the courtesy to take a girl out for dinner – or even coffee?!